- Considering a cruise but have never been on one and are hesitant about taking one?
- Gaynor Speakman, 59, may just be able to change your mind.
- Cast your vote in our poll below to tell us if she convinced you to take a cruise.
Never been on a cruise trip and don't want to take a cruise?
Gaynor Speakman, 59, might just be someone who can alter your perspective.
and here dispels seven myths about cruises she commonly hears, from "the ship will be rammed" to "I'll get seasick".
And as an added bonus, she provides expert advice on achieving the ultimate cruise experience - including why opting for a cabin without a window can be a good idea. Keep reading for more information and cast your vote in our poll to let us know if she has changed your perspective...
Myth 1: Solo cruising is practically impossible.
'Traveling by cruise can be ideal for solo travelers,' notes Bolton-based Gaynor. 'Norwegian Cruise Line stands out in this by providing a coffee lounge where solo travelers can gather casually with people of similar interests. It's a relaxed, casual setting that works well and doesn't put anyone under pressure. Many lasting friendships and even marriages have originated from encounters on cruises.
Myth 2 – You'll probably get seasick
When it comes to adaptations at sea, cruising has undergone a remarkable evolution. Many ships feature fin stabilisers that effectively minimize the rolling and pitching of the vessel. In most cases, you may not even notice you're at sea until you hear the subtle hum of the engine. However, if the worst-case scenario unfolds, ginger teas and biscuits are known to be effective remedies for seasickness.
Myth 3 - A common misconception is that cruises are exclusively for snooty individuals who prioritize formal attire and luxury.
According to Gaynor, cruises aren't boring at all.
She explains: 'Many people believe cruises are restrictive and exclusive, but they're mistaken. Yes, there are fantastic cruises that provide a luxurious, tailored experience wonderfully.
For instance, Cunard offers butler services, consistant white-glove service and priority access to select areas of the ship and dining establishments tailored to your cabin category. Celebrity Cruises provides luxury by means of exceptional culinary and beverage offerings.
On the other hand, many other cruise lines like Virgin Voyages and NCL have quite relaxed dress codes, so you can wear what suits you. Additionally, you can talk to staff, some of whom have dinner in the same restaurants as you.
Myth 4 - the ship will collide and be run over (Note: Actually, a ship is serious talk about being rammed is not a commonly used English idiom, however, "rammed" is more accurately used in this context as "collided with or crashed into")
People who have never cruised before often tell me that they thought the ship would feel like a ferry," says Gaynor. "Cruising is entirely different. For example, Royal Caribbean's Harmony of the Seas, one of the world's largest ships, can accommodate almost 5,000 people, yet it has so much room that I once sat in the outdoor Central Park area for nearly an hour with a glass of wine and saw almost no one else. Ships are so well-designed that they have different areas, or neighborhoods, and you can often find very quiet spaces.
Myth 5 - I'll be bored.
'Cruises offer endless possibilities,' says Gaynor. 'On contemporary ships, you'll find a wide range of activities catering to every interest and age group, from surfing simulations and aerial stunts to movie theaters, go-kart tracks, cooking workshops, and even spirit distillation classes.'
Myth #6 - Cruising is for the Older Generations
"Cruising, which was once predominantly the vacation of choice for affluent retirees, has undergone a significant transformation," says Gaynor, "gaining favor with a far wider range of people.
'Holidaymakers of all ages are now embracing cruises, from families with young children to young couples and older adults without children, cruising is becoming a consistent part of their vacation routine. The trend is evident: repeat bookings far surpass initial reservations, as many who initially try cruising become repeat customers, returning annually to explore new destinations and enjoy fresh experiences.'
Myth 7 - The entertainment will be cringeworthy.
"The cruise ship entertainment options have truly become some of the most technologically advanced, innovative, and thrilling you can experience," states Gaynor.
Consider the price of watching top West End musicals in the UK - then think of it being factored into your cruise fare. The experiences you can enjoy on a ship, included in the price of your cruise, would probably cost several hundred pounds to see on land.
Royal Caribbean's impressive drone show The Effectors combines the excitement of Broadway talent with a group of drones that fly above the audience, delivering a spectacular performance at sea.
'MSC Cruises features one-of-a-kind Cirque du Soleil shows, unique performances created exclusively for their ships - experiences that can only be found onboard and not on land.'
Did you know that the musical director of P&O Cruises is none other than Gary Barlow?
'Cruise lines are constantly pushing the boundaries, collaborating with innovative entertainment companies and hiring celebrity personalities to provide extraordinary experiences that surpass their competitors. The outcome is a vibrant and constantly changing holiday choice where you can travel without worrying about expenses.'
But some categories of clothing are appropriate in most Caribbean islands, which have a tropical climate to boot.
Pinpoint what you desire before examining costs
Gaynor says: 'The best way to ensure a dream cruise is by knowing what you're looking for in a holiday rather than focusing on the cost. You might get a fantastic cruise deal, but if the cruise isn't the type you want, and you're on the wrong ship, you won't have the best experience. For example, Royal Caribbean is great for families and flexibility, with outstanding kids' clubs. MSC is ideal for travelers on a budget. Child-free Virgin Voyages are best for couples, while Celebrity and Cunard offer luxury options.'
Book at least 21 days before for a best available rate.
'Cruises often become highly sought after and frequently fill up rapidly,' Gaynor notes. 'P&O Cruises itineraries and Princess cruises are typically sold out a season to two in advance. Most standard cabins for P&O Cruises and MSC's school-holiday cruises in 2025 have already sold out. Some world circumnavigation trips are booked immediately upon release of the dates.'
'However, if you're not too particular about your destination, you can often find a good last-minute deal on a cruise less than three months before you travel.'
Considering a maiden voyage or looking to save on your budget? An inside cabin might be the ideal choice
For many, the idea of booking an inside cabin - essentially a standard hotel room without a window - might seem unappealing at first, but the savings can add up. Choosing an inside cabin on your first cruise allows you to sample life on the high seas without breaking the bank. If you become hooked on cruising, you can always upgrade to a balcony cabin next time around.
'Many experienced cruisers often swear by interior cabins. They are a cost-effective option and offer a blissfully dark setting that is ideal for a great night's sleep. On contemporary cruise ships filled with amenities, many travelers view their cabin as little more than a functional space to rest, bathe, and recharge, allowing them to allocate their budget to dining, activities, or excursions.'
My Clever Hack for "Window Views"
Not thrilled about the lack of a window? There's a simple trick, says Gaynor, who explains, "Use the cabin's TV as your 'window.' Most cruise ships offer live ocean views from webcams. Leave the feed on overnight, and by the morning, you'll wake up to a virtual sunrise or a real-time view of your destination as you approach. This surprisingly effective method can replicate the feeling of natural light."
Desire solitude? A balcony cabin provides a sense of calmness
For those who cherish intimate moments and a secluded escape, a balcony cabin is a worthwhile indulgence," says Gaynor. "Stepping onto your own outdoor area to savor a book or bask in the calming sound of the ocean is a luxury that's difficult to rival. The level of comfort varies by cruise line, too - some provide straightforward chairs, while others, such as Virgin Voyages, enhance the experience with amenities like hammocks.
You'll find an accommodation to match your travelling type and price point, whether you choose an indoor cabin or opt for a room with a balcony.
Looking for a hassle-free experience? Opt for a cruise specialist - it's entirely complimentary!
Gaynor explains: 'Booking your first cruise or choosing a new cruise line can be a confusing and overwhelming experience. For this reason, working with a cruise-specialized travel agent is desirable as they can guide you through the process and book exactly what you want as soon as sailings become available.
Numerous travel agents have embarked on countless cruises and ship visits while in port and thus know where, when, and which cabin you should book. Additionally, their concierge-style service doesn't incur any additional fees!
You won't pay a commission, as it's actually covered by the cruise company. The prices will be identical whether you book with me or directly through them.
Kids clubs are facilities that many family-friendly hotels and resorts have for kids. These clubs usually offer a range of activities, including arts and crafts, games, and sports. They are extremely popular with families as they offer kids something to do while the parents relax.
Gaynor points out: 'One reason to book early that many individuals are unaware of is the availability of kids' clubs.
A ship may have ample cabin accommodations, but if the kids clubs for children within a specific age range are fully booked, there may not be space for that family.
'Due to strict staff-to-child ratios in kids clubs, spots can fill up quickly. If your child is four and all spots for children that age are taken, you won't be able to see availability. Therefore, it's highly recommended to book early to secure a spot.'
Want a touch of special exclusivity? Look into joining a club
"If it's exclusivity you want at a reasonable cost,' notes Gaynor, 'some cruise lines, such as MSC, offer an "ship within a ship" experience where a portion of the ship is reserved solely for their Yacht Club Members. You will enjoy a unique type of cabin, a private pool for members, a restaurant, and VIP access to the spa. Additionally, you'll benefit from expedited disembarkation at ports and priority boarding on a higher deck with improved views.'